If you have full hook-ups in your RV then you know black and gray water tanks are a fact of RV life, or you're about to. Yes, horror stories abound, but if you follow some basic tips for emptying and caring for your tanks hopefully you won't have a story to add to the campfire tales!
Black water tanks hold waste from your toilet. Gray water tanks hold waste from your sinks and showers. It's that simple. Black water tanks have far more solids obviously, and tend to have more problems if you don't use them correctly.
Use disposable rubber gloves and rubber boots. Once you're used to the process you may forgo the boots, but it's easier to rinse waste off rubber than off your cotton or leather footwear. If you do it right you shouldn't have any splashing, but just until you're used to it, why take chances.
Don't open any valves until your hoses are hooked up, in place and you're ready to empty the tank.
First remove the holding tank outlet cap. Using your three-inch sewer hose, connect it to the outlet of your blackwater holding tank. Extend the hose to the opening of the dump station. This is usually a hole in the ground slightly larger than the three-inch hose and sometimes well marked and sometimes not. (If you're not sure, park to the side and watch someone else empty their tanks while you observe.)
Insert your sewer hose into the dump station's hole at least four to six inches, further if your hose will reach that far. Use the hole's metal cover, a rock, or something heavy enough to hold the sewer hose in place so it doesn't come out of the hole. There are devices at some camping stores that will secure this for you as well, or you can have a partner simply hold the hose in place.
Once you're sure that both ends of the hose are securely connected and the exit end is held down, then open your black tank valve. You'll hear the a short rush of sewage flow out and down the hose and it may move or jump slightly - which is why you want the exit end secure! After a minute or so the fluid will slow down, then eventually stop. When it does, close the black tank valve. Make sure the exit end is still securely in place in the dump station hole. Sometimes it will move up and barely be in the hole - usually just enough for the next rush of gray water to kick it out. So check carefully unless you don't want to spend the next 15 minutes washing down the deck around the hole where your gray water spilled.
Now open the gray tank valve. Again, you'll hear the same thing - water flow, slow, and stop. Close the gray tank valve.
You're almost done. If no one else is waiting to use the station then you can fill your tanks and run a rinse of water through them and repeat the process to ensure the tanks are clean - particularly if you will be hitting the road again. There are devices, from a tank wand to a reverse flush valve called "The Flush King." It connects directly to your sewer outlet and rinses and cleans both holding tanks in one simple operation. A see-through through barrel lets you watch the water so you know when the tanks are really clean. If other RV'ers are waiting to use the station, skip this step, or go back to the end of the line. Over time grease and other residues will build up in your tanks even if you drain them properly every time. So, periodically treat the tank with the proper chemicals to break that down, or wash them out with dish-washing detergent to dissolve the grease. Rinse thoroughly.
Finally, double check both your gray and black water tanks to make sure they're securely closed. Disconnect the sewer hose at the RV and lift it up as far as you can as you walk it towards the dump hole. This will help drain any residual waste in the hose.
With the end of the hose still in the hole, use a non-potable water hose (not the hose you use to fill your drinking water tank!) to run water through the sewer hose to rinse it out. Some stations will have this hose there, some will not. Remove the sewer hose from the dump station hole. Rinse off the outside of the hose and the area around the hole to ensure you've cleaned up any possible spillage. Cover the hole; secure your sewer hose and your non-potable hose. Rinse your gloved hands off, then carefully remove the gloves and dispose of them in the trash, not in the dump station hole!
Drive off so others can use the station, then pull off and put about five gallons of water or enough to cover the bottom of your tank, into the black water tank. Add the appropriate amount of holding tank treatment, usually about four ounces for every forty gallons your tank holds. Do the same with your gray tank.
Now you're done!